What you said about clinical anxiety made me think about my H. he is very controlling, wants things to be exactly the way he wants them to be, and also left 2 women before me without closure!
I wonder what is behind that kind of inability to end relationships.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go