Well he moved out today and back with the same woman. He claims he has no other place to go. I told him I was tired of all the blonde hair still in the wash and him acting distant and cold with me. Of course he was defensive and rude.

I know from past experience NOT to let him this time have his cake and eat it too. He needs to see what it would really feel like to only have her in his life instead of me and her.

I know he does not want this woman on a long term relationship...but I can not let him run over me either. Any other advice on how i should handle H while he is gone.