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You know what? I'm going to get a rubber band today and put it on my wrist.


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Random thought:

Do any of you ever worry that the amount of time you spend away from your spouse might make you drift apart?


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I've worn out rubber bands, but it works with the proper focus.

And for anger also, at least for me.

W and I are so far apart this is not a worry for me.

Spending time apart was not a source of problems for us, it was how we behaved when together.

A little distance, time apart can be a very good thing. It gives us a chance to beginning missing the contact. Missing not obsessing. One is healthy the other is not.


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Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl
Random thought:

Do any of you ever worry that the amount of time you spend away from your spouse might make you drift apart?


Yes..But at the same time, what we had was broken.


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Wow, 172 posts. You might want to begin a new thread lnking to this one. The mods like to keep them to around 100.


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Dg,

Have you ever tried to hold a cat?

They can be all lovey dovey and then they decide they are done.

You keep trying to hold on, because you still want to pet them.

And they tear the skin off your arms trying to get away...

Until they are ready to come back around...

Same thing here...



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I didn't know there was a post limit. Thanks.


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