So I'm supposed to just sit back and "love her" by letting her does who knows what with whoever? I don't know that I am strong enough to accept that. I know I am not. To let her find herself other than that for sure. I could totally do that.
I get all of that fully giving her space and time but never if it includes giving her space to try try other relationships to see how she feels about it and then allow her to come back to me
If she is in contact with OM and even sees him when we go home I am supposed to just sit back?
I do love her deeply and am willing to put up with alot of her finding herself but if it extends to her fooling around emotionally or otherwise that is my limit. NO WAY I could accept her pursuing him any further than she has and not feel pure betrayal and hatred for her more than I do.
Just to be clear. I would never ever go out in her unless we were totally done. Not in my character. I would never so what she has done. Ever.
