Think of it this way: What would you be doing if your W passed away?
That would be something out of our hands. But sometimes i feel this is even worse because as the kids grow up, they will know that mom and dad live separately. Whats even worse is if and when a new man enters your ex's life and then becomes the new 'dad' to your kids. I cannot even fathom that thought
I can't remember where right now, but I know I have read that D is actually harder on children than the death of a parent.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
