Think of it this way: What would you be doing if your W passed away?
That would be something out of our hands. But sometimes i feel this is even worse because as the kids grow up, they will know that mom and dad live separately. Whats even worse is if and when a new man enters your ex's life and then becomes the new 'dad' to your kids. I cannot even fathom that thought
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...