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It then seems like all of that has been destroyed.

It appears that way.

Think of it this way:
What would you be doing if your W passed away?

That helps me. I dont' talk bad about her with the kids. That's their mom and the kids hold high value to both parents, at least at a young age.

If that's the hardest thing to handle, make it first prioty to to overcome.
Everything else is cream cheese(Teen Wolf too quote)

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