Standing up to the punches

[Redo]

Yesterday evening was my time to talk to daughter. Usually wife is there with daughter during the conversation. She sometimes helps translate daughters words for me. That part is usually pretty lively and we do have fun. For the past week we also talk for about 1 min after that. Sometimes about the D process, sometimes just about daughter. Yesterday no one was at the phone. It was so hard having conversation with daughter because she just a lil kid who runs around leaving the phone behind. I think my FIL was trying to get daughter talking to me. Guess wife was upset with me standing up to myself on the whole bonus issue. Usually i would have just conceded and agreed. This time i did not concede and even told her that i'll retain a lawyer if needed. I have not heard back since then. Not sure what she is thinking. This whole thing is so unsettling. I never thought that i would be fighting with my wife like this in court.