WAW leaving in June - Do I have time? - Part 2

[Scared2Def]

n0thing new on my front. same ole shizzle different dizzle.

[sandi2]

So, are you going to continue to endure that pitiful excuse of a life--or are you going to start living?

[ninelives]

Welcome back Sandi2. Good to see that you are helping again. you were missed.

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[sandi2]

Thanks sweetie, I appreciate that. I'm tempted to say a whole lot about that situation but I'm going to try hard to take the higher ground, b/c he's only been around a short time and I have almost four years invested into a board that I give credit for saving my M.

I've been keeping up with your thread. I had not left.....just quietly reading.

((hugs))

[Harrier]

Thanks sweetie, I appreciate that. I'm tempted to say a whole lot about that situation but I'm going to try hard to take the higher ground, b/c he's only been around a short time and I have almost four years invested into a board that I give credit for saving my M.

I've been keeping up with your thread. I had not left.....just quietly reading.

((hugs))

I'm a big boy. Sandi..you can say all you want in any thread that I have started. There is no higher ground to take. You got pissy and tried to take your ball and go home because someone had the audacity to challenge you. I thought that's what this place was about. Now talking about taking the higher ground is self-righteous BS and you know it. I'm not afraid to call it like I see it

[ninelives]

Harrier, I have read some of your posts and you seem to give good advice and I am glad that you also appear to be on tract to saving your marriage.

If at all possible , lets all let this go. We all have enough pain in our lives and come here for some much needed relief.

As Tina Turner sang, " I dont care whos wrong or right i dont really want to fight no more"

And Tina should have been on this boar years ago, She would have left Ike sooner and had better tools to cope.

Cheers everyone

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And Sandi, thanks for the hugs. Could always use those.

[Scared2Def]

Last night she gave me the seperation agreement paperwork. I stayed calm, albeit a bit on edge. I ended up going out and drinking, came home and she was sleeping on the couch. I went to the bed.. THE END so far.

[Scared2Def]

She handed me seperation agreement papers last night. She will be leaving in June moving to Texas. She did not tell me she was seeking legal advice and so it was a bombshell. I knew she was going to leave in June, but the way the seperation agreement reads, she is going to file for divorce. It just reads that way!

That being said, I am not signing anything until I get my own lawyer and get this [censored] the way I want it to read.

I am not going to fight over the kids, they want to stay with her and being their Mother, I understand that. Really and I do not hate her because of that. This has been going on for years and we always been off and on nice and mean to each other. In the long run it will be best for all 4 of us, it really will.

I just need time to adjust and move on. The relationship has been rough for both of us and we both need to be happy. Right now we are both happy when the other is not around. Simple and plain. So we are going to do what we need to do for the kids and they DO NOT NEED a dysfunctional love less home, it is a fact.

I love her but it is time for her to fix her life.

This sounds so mature and I want to keep begging but I know the above to be the truth. IN my head anyway, my heart is still bleeding.

[Harrier]

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1. I hate, to hijack S2D thread like this. Sorry Scared.

2. I am/was more than willing to let bygones be, but Sandi had to make several snide comments in her post. Why don't you tell to also to let it go?

3. Sand2- Put up or shut up. If you aren't willing to say anything to me directly, stopped with the passive aggressive comments to other people.

Again, Sorry Scared.

[sandi2]

Wow! I don't even know what the heck you are talking about anymore! You've already given your opinion about my post to nine.......or have you forgotten? I am not discussing you on any threads! And, I didn't see where you were willing to let bygones be! I saw you calling me out. How childish is that? How old are you anyway?

I'm a big boy. Sandi..you can say all you want in any thread that I have started. There is no higher ground to take. You got pissy and tried to take your ball and go home because someone had the audacity to challenge you. I thought that's what this place was about. Now talking about taking the higher ground is self-righteous BS and you know it. I'm not afraid to call it like I see it

You are not behaving like a "big boy", but more like a school yard bully. Yes, I'll admit that I let what you said hurt my feelings. You've hounded and verbally bashed me every since you arrived. I tried to help and you would have no part of it. I've not read any posts you've made to another member with the attitude you have toward me. Perhaps it is b/c I was a WAW and it's your anger that's lashing out...IDK. That much I could understand, but why continue to try and tear down anything I say. You accuse me of b.s., self-righteousness, and in past times....hypocrisy. You don't know me! All you know is that once upon a time I was a WAW. I doubt you know my stitch, but that's okay. I just want you to put your energy toward helping other members instead of duking it out with me. I would like to be able to do the same. I expected you to give me a hard time if I started posting again, but I didn't think you would just continue to harp.

You are wrong, Harrier, this is NOT what the board is about.

2. I am/was more than willing to let bygones be, but Sandi had to make several snide comments in her post. Why don't you tell to also to let it go?

3. Sand2- Put up or shut up. If you aren't willing to say anything to me directly, stopped with the passive aggressive comments to other people.

I have not said anything about you on any other thread. So, you must be still referring to the same post you griped about last time. If it makes you that mad every time you read it, stop going back and reading it again...but don't talk like I'm running you down in other posts somewhere.

You really want to let bygones be? Really? Then be a man and stop fussing with me about whatever it is that has a burr under your saddle. This doesn't help people with anything. Let the owner of this thread have it back. Now, move on.