Let Us Be Outstanding Together. Part 3

[Busting Mode]

okay so I've identified how my financial instability and my lack of confidence has directly impacted my wife.

so today I have a question and am once again asking for your help.

it has now been two weeks since I have heard from her. she has the signed divorce papers in her hand, could file at any moment.

right now she appears confused about what to do.

I am torn between continuing to wait until she initiates communication, or if I should break the silence with an offer of child support such as this message I am considering sending her today:

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Baby I think this is the longest we have ever gone without speaking and I have no idea where you are at right now, so if this message comes across as being forceful that isn't the intent..

While I want to respect your need for time and space, I am also eager to support you and the kids every way I can.

For starters, here is a copy of an ad I ran in Craigslist recently. I will be forwarding you some of the responses I received. There are no strings attached to this and I will continue paying for it even if you file. Just let me know which one you want to hire.

Michael

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I was then going to forward her the applications I received and let her decide which one she wants. she has no idea I have done any of this.

what do you think?

send the letter or continue waiting until she initiates some kind of communication, whatever it may be?


Baby I think this is the longest we have ever gone without speaking and I have no idea where you are at right now, so if this message comes across as being forceful that isn't the intent..

While I want to respect your need for time and space, I am also eager to support you and the kids every way I can.

For starters, here is a copy of an ad I ran in Craigslist recently. I will be forwarding you some of the responses I received. There are no strings attched to this and I will continue paying for it even if you file. Just let me know which one you want to hire.