Hi. I'm new at this forum. I've been married for 16 yrs and have an 11 year old daughter. About 6 months ago my husband told me he loves me but is not in love with me. I was blindsided. Didn't expect it. Like any other coue, we weren't perfect but I never imagined we were broken to that point. About 3 yrs ago he had an emotional affair. After a lot of talking and healing we were back on track. Everything was great the last 2 yrs. I had a nephew that was born 1 yr ago with an intestinal disease. He was hospitalized for 9 months straight. We spent a lot of time at the hospital. But he never said it was a problem. Life went on. Things were good. He says he wants to try to get that "feeling" back. He wants to try to work it out. But it doesn't seen like it's happening. There are days he's happy and good and ten days he seems flustered. He tells me he wants to party and live his life before he dies. He doesn't want to be attached and have to worry about being home or not. I get confusing feedback from him. We don't really talk a lot about it because Everytime we do it doesn't really go well. I really want to save my marriage. I think he wants to too or else he would have already left. Help!! What can I do??
