Islander, like I said in my sitch, tough to give advice right now. I definitely don't have the right answers. But just take in the advice you have been given. Think about your motivation and your expectations, and then make a decision. We do know our own sitch's best, but we are also the most emotionally involved in them. This can cause the bad decisions.
Answer the questions asked and think about it.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.