Another New Day 2

[islander]

I don't think asking is pressuring. I would be pressuring her if I questioned the answer she gave me, or she told me there was no way she was going to church and I refused to accept her answer (or something along those lines).

She recently told her mom that she was wanting to go to church too.

My W didnt leave bc she couldn't stand me. She said tha lt she felt like we were really good friends, ILYBNILWY, etc. She was just lacking affection from me. We bad a lot of stressors, but those are all basically gone now.

She left searching for that ever fleeting in love feeling. But we had what was necessary for our M to work. A good friendship, which should have been the foundation for our M to be successful. But neither of us put in the work that was necessary for that to happen. It is always easier for people to place their frustrations in the wrong place with the peoe that they are closest too.

I don't know if I answers any of your questions or not. It is hard for me to go back and look at what I wrote on my iPhone.