Thanks for your feedback. I am the one ready to leave. H thinks I'm over reacting and that I'm being negative.
I think I'm unable to get past the pain of betrayal and try to make things better when H does not feel that he's done anything wrong.
The incident has woken me up to our unresolved differences over the years and I'm pretty sick and tired of them and therefore, am sure I am better off on my own.
Even so, I'm keeping my head by reading DR and trying not to act rashly.