I can't afford our home once the D is final because in my state the spousal stops so all I want is the money he owes me for paying the loans etc cause I have been paying them all by myself.
That's the reason I haven't tried to contact him cause I knew he was in the angry stage again since February. When he changed his number last May cause he was like this our D14 wrote him a letter and they ended up repairing their relationship so this time I think he thought she would do it again and when she didn't I think it made him angrier.
What I don't get Mr. Bond is why did he even call me back when I called and left a message at his work if he was only going to say hurtful things and make me cry?? He has said all of the above before like he can't stand being in the same room as I am in and then 3 weeks later he's. Texting me about helping me with the pool.
I tried to find your thread but I can't. Was wondering what your sitch is....
They say every sitch is different and I know mine is way different. My H is and always was a needy person as far as being loved. I thought we were doing the right thing by not contacting him but it's like it made him angrier ...... I'm dammed if I do and dammed if I don’t
