I intend to live forever - so far, so good

[ClingingToHope]

GM, I am glad you let your daughter go to the wedding. It beats having to explain endlessly for years why you didn't.

More steps on the road to acceptance.

Saturday and Sunday went really well with the girls. Sunday night we were all in the living room and I noticed some traits they are picking up from STBXW and MIL and even SIL.

Alarm bells went off in my head and I fully, and perhaps some would say finally, realized that I don't like STBXW or her mom or her sisters or her bestfriend.

I never have. I always put up with them because it was part of the deal, but deep down I always hoped I could convince STBXW to move away so we could get away from the nutcases.

Of course, I started panicking inside because I only have them 40 percent of the time. The other 60 percent they are with STBXW and can't help but pick up some of her issues.

That's another post for another day. Sunday, I realized I really want nothing to do with the person she turned out to be. I keep remembering the person she appeared to be when I married her.