I would take it off for ME. As part of LRT and totally disconnecting, and letting go. Do I want it to work, yes. But unless I let got completely in every way I can, I am not getting my life and letting go.
If I leave it on, then it is a sign to her she still "has me". As mentioned above, the LRT is all about her believing, because you really are, moving on and she no longer has a grasp on you.
So while my mind is not made up, if I don't wear it, then it will help me move on, and remind her she doesn't have me, and I am moving on. On the other hand, she may think to herself, great, he's getting it into his head we are done, let's move this along.....
Please be careful making decisions that you aren't ready to live..
Are you ready to not be married ?
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Torn, angry at life.
This tells me that you aren't....
Maybe you can just be for a while..
Just learn to be you again, without having it be one way or the other.....just for you
Does your marital status define who you are way down inside ?
