I remember how much it all hurt when my xh used to visit and leave My them 5 year old S would cry and yes the mess was there for only us to clean up, as they went off carefree into there new life..but that was only an illusion -b/c the price the MLCer will pay for their inability to parent their children, their bad choices,their Affair partner, overspending, lack of concern and feeling will be an enormous price to pay..only we cant see that till later we on the other hand will grow by leaps and bounds by accepting this turn of events and staying responsible for our kids and our growth and healing We are here to do certain things as adults..playing all the time, running from responsibility, cheating lying ect will not lead a person to the happiness they desire..It is backwards b/c they can not amd most will never realize the wy to happiness is going forward through the pain and growing and creating a wonderful life not running from it
stand still and face it all however hard it may seem-- many people have been there before and many will be placed in your path to guide you peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
