Woke up very angry. When I collected myself I told her we need to have the financial disscussion today.The S14 now gets ssi and she is the payee. $4,000 in back pay. She shops as therapy and things have to be taken care of she will NOT use my checks as bill money any more,while she exploits the S money from SSI, feel like she had planned this all along.

Im moving into the anger stage!!!!