My Marriage in a Crisis

[islander]

4,
I think 9 has made a lot of good points. He and I are in very similar sitchs. I think a lot of the time, we "know" what to do and give good advice, but make plenty of mistakes in our own sitchs. It is easier said than done.

I would like to know what you did when your H was living with OW for 6 months. Did you guys have contact with each other. Did you distance yourself from him. What brought him back home. I am just curious bc I am having a hard time with these issues myself.

Hang in there. I think that bc your H is at home now, you are in a better place than a lot of us. Now is the time to really get to work, and don't take for granted that he is home, even if he is distant from you and not the man you know or want him to be right now.