Am I doing everything wrong?

[Confused423]

Country,

Thanks for getting back with me! I DEFINITELY need to stop sleeping with him! It's just so hard...UGH!!! I'm getting alot of guidance from reading your sitch as a matter of fact. I started reading yours from the beginning and everything is almost identical to yours except in the opposite sexes. Trying to detach and let go is murder! It's been a month on a rollercoaster!!!!

DG,

You are right...I do need to stop snooping. It ALWAYS makes me feel worse and then I end up doing something that is completely anti dbing. I have been trying to remind myself of the control thing...and that's really hard for me as I'm a "fixer". I want to make everything better!!!

I'm also a "talker" and people like you are really giving me a chance to talk it out with people who are going through some of the same things! I really appreciate the input. It'll be alot better when my posts will just show up instead of having to wait so long. It gets frustrating to have to wait...but I think it is their sneaky way of helping us learn patience I do ALOT of reading on here and I'm getting a lot of good ideas...now if I can just put them into practice.