Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Jon what is a good word? Sorry to all that are helping me here. I'm having a really bad day today. I was doing pretty good but this week I've been so down. Crrying and everything. Is this normal? It seems I go back and forth.
All I can say is...that through it all God keeps telling me that "He (God) will do it." I keep repeating that over and over to myself several times a day. Hang in there. Don't give up and don't give in. Let God do it!!
That's a good word.
Hang in there GF. Yes it's normal, I'm there too today.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Nothing new here, nothing from H not even a word from him to our D14. I thought NC is better for the LBS, but I'm getting very down again. When there is NC I'm afraid he forgets about us and has moved happened.
Jon, Anything new on your sitch? Hopefully it's good news.
No, it's not. Or maybe it is. Posted an update on my thread.
Time to GAL GF! What are you going to do?
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Well, nothing new here. No word from H and he hasn't contacted our D14 either.
Her Confirmation is coming up at the end of the month, we don't have a phone number for him since he changed it....which I still can't figure out why, because we blocked him from calling us. We were just doing it for a couple of days so he would calm down but he goes and changes his number completely.
Anyway, D14 wants him there and misses him so much. But his family is so involved and that's his fault. He tells them everything that goes on between me and him (mostly lies, I bet), and then tells them what goes on between him and D14. So now, do we invite him?
I know by God it is the right thing to do, and D14 wants him there but if he doesn't show she will be a mess again. She is on this ride too and it's not fair to her at all.
First thing to remember is that you can't make your H do what he doesn't want to do. In his warped way of logic, he may be thinking that by not going to your D's Confirmation, people will see him as the victim. "I'm not going to go. That'll show them!" You can't control that.
You be there for your D and be two times the parent you are to fill the void. If your H does stop by, don't be surprised if he makes a big deal about it as if he were a hero saving the day just because he showed up. Ignore that. He just wants to hurt you to cover his own guilt.
Are his family involved with you? Are they coming to the Confirmation? If so, show them you've got things under control.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
