Am I doing everything wrong?

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Delinquent,

Thanks for the reply! I am not doing it just to get him back...I enjoy it as well, but I don't want it to ruin my DB efforts. I'm just so confused about all of this and I don't know which way to go.

I am GAL and going out and doing things on the weekends. I do not bring up any R talks and I avoid mention of the OW at all costs, but this sex thing is where the real sticking point is and I"m not sure what to do about it.

UGH!!! I never thought we would be going through this and I just don't know the best way to handle it.

I'm sorry that you are going through this as well...are things going any better in your sitch??

My sitch seems to vary. Actually, it's me that seems to vary. I am all over the place emotionally, as you are as well.

I think you need to detach from him as much as possible. Keep all interactions business like, but not rude, and don't talk about your M

Also, as hard as it is (and I am the worlds biggest hypocrite for saying this) but stop snooping.
I know you want answers, but does it make you feel any better? I am guessing it probably makes you feel worse.
We have to remind ourselves that we are only in control of ourselves and our happiness.

Just take things day by day, keep reading threads on this site (I do constantly) and most of all realize that YOU are an amazing human being.