We would need a little more background. How old are the two of you/how long married / any kids / what lead you to her dropping the bomb the first time, etc.
Sorry that you find yourself here, but we're here to help.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.