I am also not familiar with your sitch. But, do you think she would read it. If you can answer that question, if may help you decide. I think at some point, when nothing is working, you have to go with your gut feeling. You know your W best.
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...