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Interesting update:

My WAW informed me she wouldn't be hanging around tonight with our D. After I got home from work, she would be leaving for an "appointment."

When I got home, she made a point of telling D she was leaving to "go to a doctor's appointment." Concerned, I asked if she was ok. That's when she dropped the news: "I'm going to the counselor."

I sat there cool as a cucumber on the outside, but on the inside there was a party in my head - OMG! Seriously?! What a relief! Finally, she's actually making some sort of attempt at figuring things out, whatever they are. It's a miracle!

Now, I know I have to stay calm and in control. If I let my mind wander, I can easily conjure up all sorts of scenarios where she finally see's that has all been a huge mistake. But, alas, that's not reality. I just have to be happy she is seeking some help as I continue to steer myself to where I need to go.

Looks like things may get more interesting from here. We're taking our D to a carnival together this friday. Hopefully, we can make some minor progress here.

Grab your 2x4's BITS! I'll need a proper attitude adjustment from all of you by then! Gimme your best shots and set me straight!