Piecing my marriage back together again.

[MrBond]

Talk to get IC. It's obvious you're the problem.

But let's be honest here. You enjoy abusing her. Is that correct? I mean I don't see any other reason for it. You've got some issues and enjoy taking it out on her because she's an easy target.

If you know the problem is your anger, then you get it taken care of. Figure out what's causing that. It's not your M that's a problem. It's YOU. If the roles were reversed, you would have left a long time ago. You're LUCKY your W has stuck by you so far.

If you're serious about saving your M. Save yourself first. Prove it to everyone here. When is the DEFINITE date that you are going to go in for counseling? If you come up with an excuse as to why you can't, or don't believe in it, etc. then you might as well draw up D papers now and free your W from an abusive H.