As u know we are in very similar sitch's. I had to drive by my W's house again today on the way to the market and saw OM's truck in her driveway again and it sent another bolt through me.
Was actually crying in the supermarket but here is my point. How much of this are we going to take? I think we have to really detach and mean it. Although I believe both our W's are not sure of their decision, the one constant is that they dont want to work on our M right now and would rather be with an OM.
On what planet is that OK to do while we pretend to detach and move on. We havent detached Islander, you or I. WE keep letting ourselves get hurt and whether we admit it or not, we hope that she will wake up one day and see the value or our family and US and try again.
But the reality is , and will be for some time I think, She doesn't see too far into the future and appears to be content with what they are doing.
Im not trying to burst any hope , there might be down the road, but dont expect it any time soon.
Who know Islander what caused her to come around a few weeks ago. Its possible that OM was talking about ending it with her and that caused her to go to Plan B) which might be you.
As always, we are here for you brother.
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