Very tough sitch country is in. Yes he could have informed her a little more and maybe should have. Is her anger really all that bad? Is she seeing that maybe the situation that she created is not going as planned. Things like daughter being sick may have not been on the agenda when deciding to Walk away.

This is so tough to analyze and be 100% correct. IMO, Country and W texted way too much in the early stages about daughter. Sending pics often.

Country , I dont know what to advise and be correct. Your W is with someone else and doing who knows what with them. Yes she deserves to know what is going on in her daughter's life , but did you really hold back that much info?

Perhaps just some of the things that fellow Canuk mentioned would have been good like, "sleeping peacefully" etc.

But I think it would be a mistake to get back in the friend zone while she continues with OM.

I am not going to do that. To me, that validates their affair.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11