Haven't posted in a while but I need your advice. There seems to be no hope for saving my marriage.

I was thinking of giving my W a book on forgiveness since this is flat out something she doesn't know the true meaning of . She is the Queen of holding grudges and resentment for even the littlest things to everyone execept her immedediate family!

Do you think this might be a good idea or will it be the last slap in the face?

I feel my only hope might be her realizing that she never lets go of anger and it just continues to grow inside her.

Please give me your thoughts.