I know all about the difficult weekends. Used to spend mine in bed with the covers pulled over my head. Literally. 3 day weekends.
As for your H's lack of emotion household as a child, I came from a very anti huggy/feely family. I think I saw my Dad put his arm around my Mom once in my whole life, and that was for a picture we had to all squeeze into. Only in the last 10 years or so was I able to just hug someone because. Even my own kids once they stopped being babies. Think my H was raised the same way. My point here is: That may be it, it may not. I believe most males are raised to inhibit their emotions, women, not so much.
Better days are coming Meganna. Keep Gal'ng. The weather is getting better and you can be out more, with and without your kids. Think about YOU. ((HUGS))
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011