Idk what the right answer is. I think that anything that has to do with your D should be responded to, especially if she is sick. JMO.

Other than that, I don't know how we are to determine what is working and what is not. What if the anger your W showed you meant that she was not happy with the consequences of her decision, or maybe she was just angry.

Then we try to guess what is going on and adjust our strategy, all the while flying blind.

I am having a real hard time determining if my strategy of not wanting to be friends right now is working or just making things worse. I know in the end, I will not be friends with her, but what about now. I almost want to sit down and talk to her about this, but I know that can't happen. What to do, what to do.


BITS

M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...