Thanks for your feedback JS and Jbnati.

I think one of the reasons this is hard on me is because i am representing myself. No L. So yea i do have to deal with my wife and her L on the gut wrenching aspects of the divorce. That and the fact that we have a small child who i think does not deserve a broken home. I don't know why i am being affected by this so much and not my wife. She thinks its perfectly fine for our daughter.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...