Divorce in the middle of Dbing

[Redo]

Brian, i think you really hit this one home "For me to go through this and not freak out, I have had to tell myself that my W has to get this D for her to get better and heal. Then we can start a new R".

Everyone who knows that i want to get back with my wife tell me the same. They feel that until the divorce happens wife will not see what she is losing. I sometimes feel that is true. But sometimes fear gets the better of me. Fear like what if she does? What if she meets someone? what if i change my mind?
I just have to learn to live in the present i guess.

Thanks!