Well, nothing new here. No word from H and he hasn't contacted our D14 either.

Her Confirmation is coming up at the end of the month, we don't have a phone number for him since he changed it....which I still can't figure out why, because we blocked him from calling us. We were just doing it for a couple of days so he would calm down but he goes and changes his number completely.

Anyway, D14 wants him there and misses him so much. But his family is so involved and that's his fault. He tells them everything that goes on between me and him (mostly lies, I bet), and then tells them what goes on between him and D14. So now, do we invite him?

I know by God it is the right thing to do, and D14 wants him there but if he doesn't show she will be a mess again. She is on this ride too and it's not fair to her at all.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08