DBing is great way to hopefully get back your life...

But what if you are going through the divorce process initiated my your WAS and you are trying to DB.

I am in this situation. Unfortunately the unassumingly mundane process of the divorce is so filled with strong emotions that i am finding it extremely hard to do any DBing at all (GAL, 180's etc) or lead any normal life.

I am wondering if others going through this process are feeling the same. If you are going through the divorce process and in the middle of discussing child-custody, asset sharing and child support/alimony payments, are you able to lead a normal life? . Are you able to do any DBing at all?
If you are able to do this, can you thrown in some pointers that could help others. If you are unable to do this, how are feeling stuck?


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...