Islander: This must be so tough for you. I dont know how to encourage you anymore. I dont think you can do the detachment thing at this stage or really go dark.

But then again, she is always reeling you back with the promise of R talk.

Im not sure if this is helping you or hurting you at this stage.

Just thinking of you Islander. Hope things work out but be prepared for a pull back after the concert if she goes with you.

I think they get scared.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11