Islander: This must be so tough for you. I dont know how to encourage you anymore. I dont think you can do the detachment thing at this stage or really go dark.
But then again, she is always reeling you back with the promise of R talk.
Im not sure if this is helping you or hurting you at this stage.
Just thinking of you Islander. Hope things work out but be prepared for a pull back after the concert if she goes with you.
I think they get scared.
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