Whats really missing from this Board is real insight into the mental state of mind of a WAW. All of us LBS are really focused on improving ourselves and becoming better people. The challenge is trying to keep this going while at the same time not being able to fully understand what is going on in the mind of the WAW. We are constantly guessing and then second guessing what we should or should not be doing. The advice of if its not working then do something different is pretty open ended.
It would be helpful to understand:
Why do some women come back while others move on why?
Why once they make up their mind that it is over, is there no turning back?
Why do they not like to acknowledge our changes?
Why so some of them seem to have so much anger and a total unwillingess to forgive?
How can they go from being the most caring people in the world to the coldest?
Someone needs to write a book that is based on interviews with WAW that have left permanently and those that have come back. May not change our situations, but at least it would help us assess the situation.
