Jeez Paper, I am feeling EXACTLY THE SAME about where I am right now with my W. Your scenario is similar with regard to a 'third party' also. I'd love to help you man but I can't even help myself right now. I'll look up what comes after the LRT, maybe I need to consider this as well.
Keep hoping.
FF999
Me 48 W 49 D19, S17, D14 Together 25yr, Married 22yr Me checked-out July 10, back Sept 10 W checked out Nov 10 Separated Dec 10 ILYBNILWY 2nd Apr 11 We're finished + D bomb 17th Apr 11