DG - I am sorry to hear about that. I don't blame you for not liking that one bit.
Over the last couple of weeks I have picked up a couple nuggets of wisdom on this forum when I was suspecting my W of an EA. 1. Don't assume your H is having an affair or not having an affair. Don't focus on that AT ALL. 2. How is this going to change your DB strategy? In my case, the answer was very little.
