I had another blow out with my wife last night: a bad one. I'm an angry abusive husband, and I'm not getting better. I'm pretty sure that this is the end of my marriage.

I've been posting, but I don't see them in this thread; not sure where they went.

Regardless, my situation is desperate. I've been flogging my wife for decades; yes, decades. We've been married for 24 years, and I've been getting progressively worse.

I no longer have a shred of credibility with my wife. She doesn't trust me, she doesn't want to hear anything remotely negative, even if my comments make sense.

My wife is not my enemy, but I treat her that way. I've damaged her spirit, and she's suffering.

I need help to salvage this situation.