Your sitch sounds so much like mine. My H just left on 4/2, but I had 2 months to detach while he was still living with me, so I'm not a total basket case at the moment. H stopped telling me he loved me the day before he dropped the bomb..all the way back in January. I feel that I can relate to you so much! The ups and downs; wondering what he is doing/feeling/thinking is what gets me. Oh, and I am a habitual phone record checker. I started checking in January and the longest I have gone without looking was 2 days. What has helped you stop checking?
Good luck with dinner on Thursday and please keep us posted! And I love the idea of a Skype call with a bunch of us on it!
Me: 35 H: 33 M: 3 1/2 years, together 6 years No kids Bomb #1: ILYBNILWY 1/25/11 Signed 6 month lease: 3/16/11 Separated: 4/2/11 I'm moving..alone: 9/27/11