Pregnant and he's wanting to leave

[MrBond]

First off, let's get real here. YOU are pregnant and your H needs to STFU and realize that you are the one who is in need now. Not him.

Stop worrying about his needs and worry about your own. Here's the skinny. Your H is afraid about the pregnancy. He's afraid of buckling down and being responsible. That's why he blames you for so much of his own unhappiness.

So he complains about you not being fun anymore. Give me a break. You're pregnant and your D is the first priority. He needs to get some balls and understand his responsibility as a husband and soon to be father.

Here's what you do. Go out and do what you need to do for the pregnancy. Buy things and don't include him in the planning. That's your GAL. Not the going out or appeasing him. Act as if you are ready to live your life without him and that you are prepared to not have him involved in his daughter's life.

Make sure you do all this and involve your in-laws if you get along with them. Show them that you are being responsible. Your H is going to see that and throw a major tantrum. But don't give in. Be like you're ready to move on without him. Stay strong with this and don't give in.

Don't lose your temper and treat him like a freeloading teenager who is not taking care of his responsibilities. He takes advantage of you because you are allowing him to do so.