Well, apparently touching her arm was a big deal after all. Got home from work today and W was very cold and distant. I asked if she was ok, and she said that the brushing her arm thing really upset her...and said she thought she might have been sending mixed signals since she came back. Then she reminded me that she came back so the kids can be around both of us, not for us and that she's still in that same place. I just listened to her, told her I understand where she's at and that I respect that and I am sorry about my momentary lapse in judgment.
So...i'm not sure what to do now...pretty sure we're not piecing here though. I guess it's back to being the best husband I can be.
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.