Am I doing everything wrong?

[Confused423]

So...yesterday was a very trying day! I told my husband that I thought it was best if he started seeing my daughter at his house instead of at ours. I don't know if this was the best thing to do or not as it seemed we had been going in the right direction. He had even mentioned what might happen "if he were to come back".

However, I did some snooping and found out that he is sleeping with the OW and has introduced her to his family. I know I shouldn't have been snooping, but I really just need to know how things are progressing with the OW. I don't want to be used if he has truly moved on.

I just don't know what to do anymore...can someone please HELP?!?! Why would he be talking about "if he came back" and trying to be intimate with me, but introducing his new woman to his mother?!?!?! I'm so confused about all of this and I would really appreciate any advice that anyone can give.