Retrieved my paper (my S ssi) and found some psychic reading results that said that OM was not the answer and that she is going to get S14 counciling, that I was a crutch????
I have been DBing my A$$ of and it seems to me that she has every intension of going through with the divorce.
She is very susceptible to readings card spreads ect. Her surragate mother is a medium and she has been clinging very close to her Im sure.What ever she says its written in stone.
I dont know how to get her to notice the changes I'm implicating.
Is there still love underneath all the hurt anger and resentment?after 14 years?
How can I trigger a land slide of good memories and create some good feelings?
W is in court now (shes a temp GAL)and will walk to local bar later today since I have to pick up kids. I asked her "Do you want me to pick you up after picking up D3 or do you want me to come get you after I drop her off? She responded "you can come over and hang with me awhile" Me- "I dont want you to feel awkward" W- " I dont feel awkward its ok" Me- Are you asking me to join you for awhile?" W- "yeah its ok"
Is this a blessing in disguise to spend time with her in a non threatning manner and be friendly? To be her friend right now I feel would be a building block to softening her heart? baby steps.
Afraid OM might be there. If he is how do I handle this all our interaction lately has been on the phone and at home.
