New and saying hello

[~¤DG¤~]

It's really hard for him to notice when we are living in separate households right now and most of our communication is via text.

I guess I am confused and unsure what to do. On one hand I'm supposed to think positive and envision a life with my H, correct?
But then I am supposed to pull back, GAL and act like I'm moving on without him.
Can you see where my confusion lies?