no paper, were separated, divorce filed but not finalized. she says nutten happened that he just rode home with them and didn't spend the night with us. dont want u to think she is all at fault in this i was controlling and jealous. she says that we can be friends then after a long time we may can get back together. whats frustrating is i had come so far even to the point of us talking every day and even sleeping together i just pushed her to get back together and became my old self and she ran fast.