You have been given great advice. Do NOT give H the letter. Look within yourself and find all the strength you have and focus on D right now. She needs that from you. Continue counseling and if this therapist can't help find another. Find a support group for her and yourself. Talk to the counselors at school and see if they can give you some resources to help with D.
H will look at the letter as a manipulation tactic. He may even look at D as trying to manipulate him, even though that is not her intention. Just focus on D right now and be the strong mom she needs right now. She said something HUGE that I don't think you heard, and that was she didn't even trust you right now. Show her that she can trust you right now. Be the mom, not the friend. Make her go to counseling and tell her it is for her find ways to cope with what she is feeling.
(((HUGS)))
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
