well folks im back at square one. she went out this weekend with her friends for her birthday got very intoxicated and ended up back at a friends house with a guy from the bar. of course i went off she responds saying that nothing has changed with me and there is too much for me to work on to save our marriage. she also said that we both need to work on ourselves that maybe in a year or to we may end up back to together but right now she doesn't love me at all and dosnt wanna spend time with me. i think i tried to approach her before i was fully detached. gonna go a little dark again no calls or text and only talk about our son.
